Our Wedding: The Las Vegas Invitations

Have you heard of Paperless Post?

I came across it while I was designing our Las Vegas wedding invitations. I wanted electronic invites, since it was going to be such a small event with less than 30 invitees…but I still wanted something elegant and special. I wanted something that felt like a wedding invitation.

I plugged electronic wedding invites into my web browser and started sorting through the options.

There were a lot of e-card options, that we basically postcard style with the invite, and other sites similar to Evite, which does a good job managing guest lists, but always just seemed to…digital.

That is when I happened across Paperless Post. They have virtual cards for all events, and I loved the variety. But what sold me was the wedding invitations.

They look EXACTLY like something I would expect to receive in the mail, and they coordinate the details down to matching envelopes and response cards. I was even able to add an additional ”card” for the extra details (like the fact that there is no formal reception, and it gave me a place to leave the discount code for the hotel room).

I was able to customize a Las Vegas themed invitation, which was so perfect. I could customize colors, and even fonts.

I was so thrilled with the results.

There we a few small fees. One to add the additional info card, and another to email out the invites as apposed to just sharing them on Facebook or twitter (which is free). But the price was so nominal and well worth the gorgeous invitations we ended up with.

Now, I just have to start nagging people for RSVP’s. :)

Our Wedding: The Las Vegas Venue

So, I know that I already let the cat out of the bag on this one, but since we paid the balance due on our venue today, it seemed the appropriate time to talk about our Las Vegas Wedding Venue.

As I am sure you have already figured out, Mark and I are getting married at The Excalibur Canterbury Wedding Chapel on August 13, 2012.

The venue choice was an easy one.

One of our first ever vacations as a couple was to Las Vegas, and being the amazing girlfriend that I was, I surprised him by booking The Excalibur for two nights. He had told me early in the relationship that he always wanted to stay at Excalibur because it was a castle.

When we decided to make the trip, I couldn’t resist the chance to book the room, and when I found a deal for $35 bucks a night, I was sold.

When we arrived at Excalibur however, we were notified that the bed size we had requested (a king) was not available in the type of room we booked (the older un-renovated rooms). I told them I had really preferred a king over 2 queens because it was our first real vacation together (aside from a night at Disneyland). Rather than stick us with two beds, the women upgraded us for free to the very large and renovated widescreen rooms, with an extra seating area.

Awesome.

I knew at that moment it would be a special trip.

Excalibur didn’t let us down. Everyone was so kind and pleasant and when I accidentally flooded the bathroom (it had a handicap shower and I laid down on the drain) rather than get mad at me, they apologized and offered to upgrade us again. I declined the offer. It was, after all, my fault.

The experience was so magical and perfect that I couldn’t imagine getting married anywhere else in Vegas. They had been so wonderful, and memorable and that is what I wanted my wedding to be.

This time, we booked the renovated widescreen room straightaway. It was beautiful and I didn’t want to risk it with an older room on my honeymoon.

The chapel is stunning, and the coordinator takes care of all the details for us. Flowers are even included in the package.

*Photo Courtesy of Bestofvegas.com*

Oh, and did I mention the pool? It has slides.

Everything just fell into place so nicely and I couldn’t be happier that I am about to marry my knight in shining armor…er….wizard….in a castle. :)

Our Wedding: My Vegas Dress

Since the whole idea behind the Las Vegas wedding was easy and simple, I wanted a dress that would suit that concept.

I knew as soon as we booked the Vegas Venue that I had to find a dress. It would be too much pressure if I found one that needed to be altered or ordered, so I just jumped into the search.

I did not have fun dress shopping.

I spent an entire day off looking around the mall for any white or off white cocktail length dress.

It shouldn’t have been hard. It was, after all, prom season. But everything I found was too short, or too modern, or too trashy, or too ugly. I must have gone into every woman’s clothing store in the mall.

I even went across the street to another shopping plaza and did the same thing. Nothing.

I went to the web, my ultimate answer in times of shopping peril, but was thwarted again. Even with all of cyberspace at my fingertips, I could not find a suitable dress.

It was beyond frustrating. My simple Vegas wedding was not starting off well. Finding a cute cocktail dress during Prom season was not proving to be a simple task.

I chose to go another route and a couple weeks later, went with a friend to “David’s Bridal” after work. The bridal consultants were not very nice. Even though the store was dead, and I was only looking at simple destination dresses they seemed honestly annoyed that I had not made an appointment.

Um…really?

Maybe they were just miffed that my price point was so low, but I wasn’t planning to spend much on the simple dress I was envisioning.

I only found three dresses that I was even willing to try on (though she did only show me like 8 to choose from).

Dress number one was NOT impressive.

I liked the sweetheart neckline and had wanted something more unique on the skirt, but this dress missed the mark. It just looked cheap on the bottom and I wasn’t a fan of the type of bling the dress had.

Dress number 2 was better.

Again, the right neckline, and I liked the lace and length. I just didn’t feel any sort of emotional attachment to the dress. It was missing something, and it didn’t have that touch of playfulness I was looking for.

I really like dress number 3 despite the length.

I felt like a princess, which was certainly appropriate for our Las Vegas Wedding Venue. I could see it with flowers in my hair, walking down the isle. It was more money than I planned to spend, and being a full length skirt would make it difficult in Vegas. I had planned to just wear my dress all night running around town after the wedding, and this was too long for that. I could shorten it to cocktail length, but that would be an added expense as well.

I didn’t say no to the dress, and even made note of the design for future reference, but I didn’t feel comfortable making the purchase either.

I left the store feeling very disappointed. I wanted to make a choice quickly so I could focus on the other details. I was actually somewhat depressed and fairly cranky when I arrived home that night.

Lucky for me I have an incredibly understanding fiance who loves me dearly. He was so sweet to me, despite how upset I was, and reassured me that I still had plenty of time to find the perfect dress.

Though I knew my efforts would be futile I hopped online again, this time tweaking my search terms to (hopefully) find a larger selection of dresses.

I found a few likely options from a bunch of stores I had never heard of, and really didn’t want to take the chance.

In Google shopping I found a link to a white cocktail dress from Nordstrom and clicked on the thumbnail for a better look. I didn’t like it. Too rigid and mature. It wasn’t as whimsical or romantic as I wanted.

I was just about to give up for the day when I saw something on the bottom right side of the screen. It was in a column titled “You might also like” and was the second to the last dress.

I gasped.

I clicked on the thumbnail to enlarge the image, and I knew. This was my dress. The price confirmed it. Half off and it was far less than I could have ever hoped to spend.

I was so excited. It would need a few special touches to make it perfect but it was everything I wanted for myself.

I checked to be certain that I could return the dress for a full refund (in case it didn’t fir or didn’t look good on) and then I placed the order.

I’m not gonna lie, I was nervous about making such an important decision without having tried the dress on, but the return policy set me at ease.

I needn’t have worried. The next week the dress arrived.

It was exactly what I hoped it would be. It was exactly like the picture, and it fit perfectly.

I still need to get it pressed and I am hoping to find a lacy slip to wear underneath the dress, but aside from finding a few accessories, I am so pleased with my dress.

I am really looking forward to wearing it. :)

Our Wedding: Viva Las Vegas

So, I know what you’re thinking. “You just went to Pennsylvania to plan your wedding for next May 18th. So, what is all this Vegas nonsense?”

Well, I am very glad you asked. :)

When Mark proposed, he was really excited about the idea of getting married in one of our favorite cities.

The place holds some pretty fond memories for the two of us, and Mark always wanted a simple wedding anyway.

He also wanted to get married sooner, rather than later.

The fact that he wanted to get married in a castle may or may not have also played a teeny role in this decision.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, we will be (officially) husband and wife on Monday, August 13th at around 4:00 pm. In case you didn’t guess, we will be tying the knot at The Excalibur!

This is a preliminary checklist of how things stand. I promise blog updates on each topic quickly (after all, I only have a month and a half).

Things We Already Have:

  • A Ceremony Location
  • An Officiant
  • Flowers
  • The Chapel Photographer
  • A Dinner Location (There will be no reception, just a small group of friends)
  • Invitations
  • My Dress
  • Our Wedding Bands
  • Hotel Reservations
  • Discounted Hotel Rates for Our Guests

What We Still Need:

  • Dinner Reservations
  • A Small Cake
  • Mark’s Attire
  • My Shoes
  • Everyone to RSVP :)
  • A Marriage license

I am sure there is more, but this wedding is pretty short and simple, so that is really almost everything. I can’t believe it is coming up so quickly, bit I couldn’t be more thrilled. I love him so much and cannot wait to be his wife.

Our Wedding: Save The Date

It is officially official! We are tying the knot.

Not that there was ever much doubt, but now we have a wedding date. That makes it way more real.

We went to PA intent on keeping an open mind about a possible wedding date. We didn’t want to be so in love with a date that we would walk away from the perfect venue just because they didn’t have our date.

I won’t lie. I wanted April 13…but there were pretty strong objections to the date.

Mostly because of the high risk of snow.

So, we went for the only possible option in May.

Are you ready for this. Drum roll, please?

Mark and I will be saying our vows in front of family and friends on…

May 18, 2013!

It is all very exciting.

We still have a lot to do, but it seems that we still have lots of time. I am really happy with our date.

It also will be the 20th anniversary of Mark’s name sake, his Uncle Mark. It was a total coincidence, but we are thrilled to share that special day with him.

I am so excited. Is it next may yet?

****Official Save the Dates Mailings to Follow. :)

Our Wedding: Making the Arrangements

So, as I am sure you have discovered by now, our trip to PA this past week was booked for the purpose of planning our wedding.

Much as I love the relaxing nature of the woods and the mountains and getting to spend time with my wonderful family to be…this trip was really for the wedding.

I am amazed and pleased with how much we got accomplished in a very short time frame. Now, I plan to post on each of these subjects individually in the coming weeks and months, but for now I want to give you a quick run-down of all that transpired.

  • We booked our reception venue
  • We set our wedding date
  • We settled on a ceremony site
  • We have hired a florist
  • We have a cake designer/baker
  • We have a THEME and our wedding colors
  • We purchased my dress
  • We hired a DJ
  • We set our menu AND squeezed in a food tasting
  • We have a flower girl :)
  • I have the best hairstylist in the WORLD
  • We designed the centerpieces
  • We selected favors
  • We decided what we want for room decor and already purchased some
  • Mom and I came up with the (secret) design for the groom’s cake
  • I was surprised by a beautiful bridal shower

I think there is more, but that is all I can think of now. I cannot wait to share (some of) the details.

After all, we have to have a few surprises. :)

Our Wedding: Engagement Photos

Yup. It is happening. We are finally getting our engagement photos shot. We have been wanting to do this for a while, and we just never could get it to come together. The best part is that we having them done by my friend Steven of Steven C. De La Cruz Photography.

I am very excited. Mark and I have never had professional photos taken together before. We have a lot of great uses for them already, too. Save the dates, the website, our guest book, and we can bring them to Pennsylvania in two weeks when we head east to plan the wedding.

We are having them taken on Monday in a whimsical park by Steven’s house….and they are going to be themed photos. It is a little odd, but Mark and I are a little odd. The theme or rather, inspiration for the shoot is something that means a lot to both of us. They will be a perfect reflection of the two of us as a couple.

This is a peak at some of his other work.

So excited to see how they turn out!

 

Our Wedding: The Proposal Story

WonderCon: Day 1 – The Couple and the TARDIS

WonderCon: Day 2 – It’s Easy being Green

WonderCon: Day 3 – A Very Nerdy Birthday

Alright. So here it is. The story of how we became engaged.

The weekend of March 16th to the 18th a couple of our closest friends accompanied Mark and I to WonderCon, a pop culture/comic book convention in Anaheim.

It was my birthday weekend, and Mark and I couldn’t pass up the chance to head to another one of those “nerd” conventions. It is just our style. The entire weekend, Mark had planned to propose, but one factor or another kept preventing his grandiose plans from coming to fruition.

On the last day of the convention and my birthday, our friends, Mark and I headed back home, sad the trip was over, and both of us feeling anxious. When we returned home, Mark took me out to a delicious birthday dinner at “Baby Blues Barbeque.” We started with Fried Green Tomatoes…my favorite.

After the meal, we grabbed a bottle of wine, and headed back home to toast my birthday before heading out to meet up with some friends.

Mark asked me to light the candle on the coffee table (a star wars lightsaber candlestick holder from thinkgeek.com, with a long red taper candle that I had given him for Valentine’s day) and AFTER I lit the candle, Mark pointed out something was on the candlestick. I looked closer and noticed the gorgeous ring was waiting for me around the red candle.

I took it off (without blowing the candle out) and turned around. Mark was down on one knee. He took my hand and asked, “Sam, will you marry me?”

I told him that I was going to cry, and he burst out, “well, don’t say no!” I started laughing as I said yes, and wrapped my arms around him. We finished our glasses of wine, while talking about the future and laughing. I was so happy I was shaking.

We went out to celebrate our engagement and my birthday with good friends at Barney’s Beanery, the place where we first met.

The Very Unique Engagement Ring:

My ring is not a diamond (which I am not a fan of) but instead is the very stunning Moissanite. Moissanite is a rare, naturally-occurring gemstone that is typically found in small quantities in meteorites, corundum deposits, and kimberlite.

So basically, my stunning rock came from space (how very appropriate for a Star Wars Proposal). I love it , but not nearly as much as I love the man who gave it to me.